Meaningful article...

Saw this in an email!! Wow.. Most of it is really true.. Haha... so i decided to PINJAM to post on my blog.. Hehe.. Hope all guys and girls will see this post and learn how to communicate better^^


其实很多男孩子都不知道，
女孩子在冲他们发火后自己转过身却在不断啜泣。
实很多男孩子都不知道，
女孩子从来不会真正去生他们的气，因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。
其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子只会对自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨，
也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。
你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会来在乎你关心你，怕你做错事情。
你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会对你发火不会冲你撒娇让你哄她，
在别人面前她都是淑女。
你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，你根本就没有本事让她哭泣，
让她即使生气也不会超过2天。
而这一切都只是因为她喜欢你，而这一切都因为你还不够在意她不够懂她。
于是，你们时常争吵，你认为她脾气不好，她认为你不够迁就她。
于是，你们总是冷战，你以为她不喜欢你，她以为你不在乎她。
于是，你们总是莫名其妙的彼此错过，也许擦身而过，本身就是一种悲伤着的无奈与幸福。
要知道，凄美依然是美的一种，并且美的绚丽悲凉而沧桑，那是更加的美。
因为她喜欢你，所以她偶尔冲你发火，时常对你撒娇。
因为她喜欢你，所以她才会生你的气；
而又因为喜欢你，她才不会去生气很久。
你可知道，每个女孩子的心都是水晶做的，晶莹剔透，但是很容易就碰伤摔碎。
你可知道，每个女孩子都是不设防的，你那么轻易就闯进她的心，走的时候却只留下伤害。她从来都不知道，这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人，
因为真正值得她哭的那个根本舍不得让她哭。
她会很矜持，
她会很骄傲，
她会很冷淡，
她总是嘴里说着你走开，心里却一直叫你留下。
你了解女孩吗?
请你张开你的耳朵，
也请你打开你的心，
去听她心里真正的呼唤，
而不是她嘴里的口是心非。
她会看着你转身，然后她跟着你转身，当侧身而过的时候，
你看不见她的泪，滂沱在脸上心里。
如果你喜欢她，请你多陪她；
如果你喜欢她，请你多宠她；
如果你喜欢她，请你多让她。
如果你喜欢她，请你去听听她内心的声音，那是呐喊——请拥抱她。
在爱情里，总是彼此伤害，彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈爱到轰轰烈烈。
可是，爱情里没有孰对孰错；
爱情里更加没有你比我多我比你少。
你爱她，她爱你，如此就已经足够。
不要试图让彼此的伤害，让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。
你们彼此相爱，你们需要的是温暖是幸福是甜蜜是快乐，不是伤害。
不要用沉默宣战，不要互不相让，
更不要什么话都不讲就冷漠离去。要知道，你离去的时候，你的眼睛起了雾，她的眼角泛着泪光。
越是安静战火就越深，这是冷战也是彼此的伤害——
无论是怎么的复合，那些伤口曾经存在，抹不去。
请跟她一个拥抱，用你的拥抱去化解她心里的悲伤与眼角的泪水。
她喜欢你，她绝对不会拒绝你的拥抱，她只会害怕你的冷漠转身无声安静。　　　　
请记住，相爱的人不要轻易宣战，因为冷战带来的伤害，超出你的预计。
也请记住，只要你喜欢她，没有什么是你接受不了的，
只要你喜欢她，就喜欢她的一切一切。
那么她所有的小性子所有的坏脾气所有的臭毛病，在你眼里都是撒娇。
也请记住，她喜欢你，她需要的不是你真的转身，她嘴里说着的也不是她的真心话。
她只是想你宠她，想你抱她，哪怕，没有道谦。

Gladly...

The storm is over... Mayb there's still some distance or i should say, a lot of difference on our thinking... Nevertheless, i hope we can understand each other more and more in the future... I don't wanna lose u because of this small matter..

I'm glad that u're willing to listen to my feelings and keen to protect me in the future.. I just wanna to be myself in front of u n I wish u can do the same too.. I love u...



p/s: Now u understand y?? ^^

No title....

I'm suffering.... and Struggling.... What shud i do? I'm really tired of this... Really tired...
If i couldn't express my most basic emotion and thinking in front of u.. Den it is meaningless that we become couple...
Forget about the sadness today and before, Can i do it? I'm wondering...
Tomorrow is a new day? I don believe it....

我的心不是铁做的。。它经不起一而再，再而三的挫折和伤害。。

Damn It !!

So damn damn damn angry today!! Angry!!! Don let me know who is the person who stolen my dear's laptop, if not, i will chop him into pieces!!

This morning, my dear and his roommate went for his last paper.. EASA paper.. Last paper people!! Shud be happy bcos they stressed so much for this exam, den laptop got stolen... REally sucks!!

Our college oso, Ppl, if u'are in Nilai University College, or plan to study here, DON!! The security here really sucks man.. SO many laptop being stolen edi, but the college still do nothing about it.. I really hope someone can sue the college for their negligence.. Our college, only know how to earn money, Charge high fees and all stuffs.. But never care about the student!! I really regret for studying in this college..

For the one who breaks into my dear's room, I curse u forever!! When u steal ppl's thing, do u ever think that u'll pay for the crime u did one day??!! I hope the day will reach soon!! And if u're so poor to steal ppl's thing, then wad for u come studying in this college?? U shud stay beside the road, and just be a beggar!! An educated ppl will not do all these things!! U'll pay for all the sin u've done one day!!

For the gurad, Are u all blind or wad?? I know mayb u all are PUASA-ing, but doesnt mean that u cannot do things well.. All of u edi puasa for so long and don tell me that u still cant get use to it?! And there has been so many cases of stealing and u're doing nothing!!! Den wad for the college pay u to become SECURITY guard??!! Or mayb U're the one who stolen the laptops??

For the college, don Just think of earning money from student ok? If u cant secure that we'll be safe in the college, den DON provide accommodation in college!! What a stupid system.. Mayb is the college worker who stolen it but u all still dont know!! Please be smart!! Not only check the Student but check ur workers too!! Damn it!!!

p/s : Don be too sad my dear... Every thing that happen has a reason behind it.. And good things will come soon.. Every cloud has a silver lining... cheers^^

Tagged by Jaccqueln..

個 人 題 - 10 題~

01) 你叫什么：Tan Chie Shiun

02) 你的綽號：Shiun, Dirty Cat, Smallest mei mei... Watever ppl feel like calling me..
03) 你的血型：Dunno wo...

04) 你的星座：Capricorn

05) 你是男還是女：Off course i'm Female

06) 你幾歲：18++ [2009]

07) 你住哪裡: Klang
08) 你現在的學校 : Nilai International University College

09) 你有沒有手機 : Yes

10) Contact list 有多少个人：Never count before...


朋 友 題 - 10 題~

11) 你最要好的朋友（限１個）: Ms Loo, Ms Yvonne...

12) 你最討厭的人（限１個）: 讨厌人很累，所以没有


情 題 - 10 題~

21) 你有沒有喜歡的人：Yes
24) 到目前為止，你跟多少人告白過：0

5) 到目前為止，你被多少人告白過：Erm, bout 10++ gua...

26) 到目前為止，你交過多少個男／女朋友：1

27) 現在有另一半嗎: Sure..
28) 你最好的同性朋友跟你告白你會怎樣: impossible, she edi have a bf >.<

29) 你初戀情人突然跟你告白你會接受嗎 : Erm, dunno, wait i pat tor for 2nd time 1st, Hehe..

30) 你為什麼會喜歡你現在喜歡的人: 喜欢一个人需要理由吗？

31) 你和另一半牽手過嗎: sure

32) 你和另一半抱或親過嗎: Sure

33) 你跟異性牽手過嗎: Yup

34) 是誰，你們什麼關係？：My fren, lose when playing 大冒险。。

35) 現在有人在追你嗎：no wo...



混 合 題 - 10 題~

36) 如果有天，好朋友離你而去，你會怎樣: Very Sad...

37) 如果有天，好朋友背叛你，你會：See the reasons why she do that to me 1st..

38) 如果有天，好朋友對你喜新厭舊了，你會：Hmm.. Den its fated.. I cant control their mind..

39) 如果你很受不了你的父母，你會離家出走嗎: Never, cos they treat me very well..
40) 你上課認真嗎 ：Erm.... Hehe

41) 你功課好不好：not bad..

42) 你开电腦都在幹麻: surf net, assignments, facebook, msn, drama...

43) 你的即时通有多少个同性：a lot
44) 你的即時通裡有多少個異性：almost the same as same gender lo..


兇 手 題 - 10 題~

45) 傳給你這份問卷的人是谁: Ms Jaccqueln Lee!!

46) 这個人對你好不好：Good!

47) 這個人是你的誰：my fren

48) 你有喜歡過這個人吗？ ：Sure! She so cute.. haha..

49) 你們認識多久了：1 year?

51) 這個人是怎樣的人：Appearance: Cute, Character: Blur blur.. Haha..

52) 这个人正／帥嗎：Leng lui le.. especially when she smile..

53) 這個人跟你有沒有在一起过：................ I don like female.. Wakakaka...

54) 萬一你喜歡這個人，你會怎麼办：Impossible thing!!


聯 想 題 - 10 ~

56) 說到正妹你會想到誰: Everybody tat i feel is leng lui.. hehe..

57) 說到帥哥你會想到誰: Hmm.. My bf mayb?? Wakakaka... Still every guy i think is leng zhai lo...

58) 說到憨你會想到誰: My self.. Wakaka...

59) 說到痴你會想到誰：No idea..
60) 說到暗戀你會想到誰: Those ppl that i like in the past lo.. haha..

61) 說到出去玩你會想到誰：My family, my 38 family gang, 5s5 gang, best fren and off course my dear...
62) 說到聰明鬼你會想到誰：Miss wai san

63) 說到傻子你會想到誰：The one who always do cute cute things.. hehe..

64) 說到笑點低你會想到誰：Miss mei peng!!

65) 說到愛笑你會想到誰：Miss Jaccqueln.. Hehe..



學 校 題 - 11 題~

66) 你的班導是誰: --

67) 你的座位是第幾排第幾個: --

68) 你最喜歡的老師是誰: My add maths tuition teacher, and my parents^^
70) 你的英文好嗎: Quite ok, But still can be improved..
71) 你的體育好嗎: Not really.. haha

72) 你的数学好么: Ok ok lo

73) 你喜不喜歡你的校長: My headmaster ar? Dunno who also, but my college management can reflect wad kind of ppl is he/her..

74) 你的學校好看嗎: Sure.. Like kampung.. N like forest oso.. hahaha

75) 你的班級是：--

76) 你的班級在幾樓：--

You've been tagged !!!

1. 被點到必填，不填代表你不尊重傳給你的人和問卷。

2. 請老實的回答每一個問題。

3. 不行擅自塗改題目。

4. 點完後請通知那10位朋友他被點到了。


Ppl that i tag: 1) Miss Lim soo pei!!!
2) Miss Tan Mei Peng!!
3) Miss Angel Wan yee!!
4) Mr Day Gan!!
5) Miss Loo (if u dowan see chinese den dunid answer la.. Keke...)
6) Miss Yvonne Voo..

Speechless....

Mayb all girls shud go n read this book, Act like a lady, Think like a man... so that we don have to suffer so much in a relationship...

In a relationship, girls are always the one who care for their bf, and is the bf who come 1st in their mind no matter what they do.. So, girls will sacrifice more in their relationship.. To care bout this care bout that...

However, guys doesn't think so... It is up to ur problem whether u wanna do this or do that, think this or think that.. they never truly care what our feelings are.. They will just think that we girls, always angry unreasonably and think too much..

And all stuffs that girls do for them, they'll never show appreciation (although they say guys really appreciate it, but they just didn't show it).. Yea although u appreciate it in ur heart but u never show it, the gal who sacrifice for u will also be tired 1 day... That's y many guys regret after they break up with the gf and regret that they never cherish them...

Recently, i as a girl, feel that i'm thinking a lot.. on our relationship... Its like no more "firesparks" between us... yea i admit that it is normal for couples, but i realise that we still don understand each other even after 1 year.. Its like a little tiring for me.. If guys doesn't care girls feelings, then why should we gals care? and why shud we be so serious in a relationship? But when gals think like this, guys start to angry pulak.. Really speechless...

Now, i hope someone will write a book Act like a man, think like a lady... Sometimes we're angry is not because we like it, it had reasons behind it and what we think has the reasons too!! So guys, don misunderstand us!! Hope that all guys will see our feelings and understand us too..

p/s: Do all girls think like me? Mayb all guys should see this post.. Hehe.. This post doesn't mean anything.. Just the thinking of mine..

有意思。。

刚刚看了九把刀的书，《不是尽力，是一定要做到》。

觉得里面这段话很有意思，所以决定跟大家分享。。哈哈。。

“梦想不是挂在嘴边炫耀的空气，而是需要认真的实践。
等到对的风，我们展翅翱翔，没有风，只要拥有足够强壮的翅膀，我们照样的飞行。
人生最重要的，不是完成了什么，而是如何完成它。。”

有意思吧。。 哈哈。。真的给我很大的觉悟叻。。
所以呀，梦想不是拿来拥有的，需要认真地实现！！ 大家加油哦！！^^